How to Find Clarity in Life

My purpose in life is to help others find transformational clarity that propels them to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave the legacy they desire. Read more to learn how my team fulfills this purpose.

I had a big problem in 7th grade. I was being bullied. Hair spray was sprayed in my face, I was spit at, my bike was stolen, & a kid took a crap on my front porch. I didn't tell anyone, including my parents, about living for months in misery. I didn't stand up for myself.

Bad Choice #1: I Didn't Talk to Anyone About My Problem
Bad Choice #2: I Did Not Stand Up

I finally told my dad, and he told me that I must stand up for myself. He told me I needed to punch the kid the next time the bullying started. My dad's blessing was the clarity I needed. I remember feeling relief because I now had a plan of action to follow and someone giving me emotional support (my dad). The instigator started at me again, and I shocked myself by cracking him hard in the mouth. I hit him so square that I fractured a bone in my hand. My suffering was over, and he, nor the other kids, ever messed with me again.

Good Choice #1: I Talked to My Parents
Good Choice #2: I Faced My Fear

Decide Your Legacy Leads People Towards Clarity!

We take people through 6 month coaching process or 3-day retreats where you create a legacy plan. A legacy plan is a blueprint for your life now and a plan for living the life you desire. You will head towards whatever you focus on. Be international about where you focus your energy.

I'm a fan of coffee! You need excellent beans and a good filter to make a great cup of coffee. Coaching starts with showing you how to create great beans through healthy thinking and a positive self-concept.

A coffee filter removes the coffee grinds (bad stuff) so that you can have a great brew (good stuff). Coaching helps you identify and implement healthy filters for your life. You identify and remove distractions so that the good stuff remains.

Once you have excellent beans and a good filter, you can make some great coffee. The coffee you create are the RIGHT goals and a clear plan of engagement.

The Life Coaching Process

I've found that people rarely slow down and self-reflect. Most people rarely take the time to gain the clarity they need and live with confusion as a result. Don't let this be you!

No Clarity = Bad Choices

• Taking the wrong jobs
• Hanging out with the wrong people
• Spending your time on the wrong activities
• Dating the wrong people
• Wasting time worrying & stuck in your head
• Procrastination
• Perfectionism
• Living as a victim in self pity

If all of this interests you, check out Tune Up For Life. It's a way to get a taste of our coaching process. It's an online coaching course and workbook designed to help you find purpose, set goals, and enjoy life. It can help you find clarity that inspires change.

Through the Tune Up for Life, You Will Start Creating Your Legacy Plan and Learn About ..........
 

1. Healthy Thinking Skills
   What you focus on the most, you AMPLIFY. Learn & practice the tools to help you develop and maintain a healthy and positive perspective.
2. Your True Value
   Do you lack confidence? Do you lack self worth? Discover your unique intrinsic traits and learn how what you like and/or love about yourself can help you face any challenge life brings your way.
3. Assess Your Life
   Rate your level of satisfaction in all 7 core life areas: spiritual, family, health/self-care, social/fun, intellectual, financial & career/business. Learn how to establish and maintain a reasonably balanced life and how to make necessary adjustments to live with freedom & joy.
4. Living From Your Core
   Everyone has unique core values that can be used to make the best decisions. Clarifying your values and aligning your life with them changes everything. Learn to identify your core values and the steps necessary to live by them.
5. Why You Exist
   Live without regrets. Develop the courage to live a life true to yourself, not the life others expect you to live. Everyone has a unique life purpose, which, when clarified and reflected on each morning, will keep you on track.
6. Focus Your Energy
   Discover how to set the right goals, goals that will lead you towards your best future. Goals aligned with your life purpose and your core values. Goals that lead to a balanced and happy life.
7. Be Intentional
   You will only reach your goals if you engage in daily habits that lead towards your target. Learn the secrets to establishing the right habits that lead to success.

Watch the FREE Shatterproof Yourself Lite course—on your desktop or in the Decide Your Legacy app—and learn the 7 steps to a major boost in your confidence.

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