Why I Started Decide Your Legacy

Decide Your Legacy was created to help people gain transformational clarity and face the fears that keep them stuck—so they can intentionally live their lives and ultimately leave the legacy they desire.

Along the way, my own insecurities sometimes pulled me off course. I played it safe. I drifted from the deeper purpose. And yet, I always found myself returning to the same truth: this work matters.

At its core, Decide Your Legacy exists to help people clarify a future they can grow into. Not a rigid plan—but a flexible framework. A guide. A reminder. One that supports real life, real change, and real evolution through the Legacy Journey framework.

A Legacy Plan comes out of courage, not fear. It propels you forward to face your fears. Very few people intentionally step back to uncover this clarity. Most people don't "sculpt" their lives. They accept what comes their way and then gripe about it.

At Decide Your Legacy, we help people figure out what they REALLY want and create a plan to get there. We do this through coaching and workshops.

Legacy Coaching & Legacy Workshop Topics

1. Vision (Decide Your Legacy)

How do you hope others remember you when you're gone? Create your Legacy Statement and 10-year vision that will keep you focused and motivated.

2. Healthy Thinking Skills

Shift your focus away from fear towards hope. Learn 3 tools that will reshape your life perspective for the better.

3. Emotional Health

Your emotions are a God-given resource. Understand how to effectively identify, manage, and express your feelings in ways that build relationships and help you reach your goals. Check out this DYL Emotions Bookmark with activities I use with clients and workshop attendees.

4. Self-Concept (What I Love About Myself)

Gain insight into the assets of your personality, life experiences, and passions. Identify what you love about yourself and learn how to be your own biggest encourager.

Watch the FREE Shatterproof Yourself Lite course—on your desktop or in the Decide Your Legacy app—and learn the 7 steps to a major boost in your confidence.

5. Core Beliefs (Replace Limiting Mindsets)

Everyone has perspectives of themselves and the world that hold them back. Identify your negative core beliefs and learn how to overcome them.

6. Core Needs (How I Thrive)

We all forget what energizes us and what drains us. Identify what you need each day to thrive and create a plan to get these needs met each day.

7. Life Balance (Make it a 7)

Learn how to use the Life Wheel as a tool to consistently assess your life and make necessary shifts. Establish realistic and healthy expectations in each life area.

8. Life Purpose (Why I Exist)

Understand the clues to discovering your unique life purpose. Identify strategies to engage these reasons for your existence. Create your life purpose statement.

9. Core Values (How I Behave)

Core values are the behaviors that you deem most essential for your personal success. Identify your top core values and create a plan to live them out each day.

8. Mission (What I Do Professionally)

In what practical ways can you live out your life purpose right now? Create a clear statement telling the world how you live out your purpose.

11. Goals (My Focus)

Healthy goals energize, inspire, and keep you balanced. Learn how to set the right goals and avoid the wrong ones.

12. Habits (My Consistent Actions)

Establish the behavioral habits that lead to successfully reaching your goals.

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Counseling is about...

1. The therapist is the expert
2. Your problems and how they keep you stuck
3. Your past
4. How you're doing things by default
5. Healing old wounds
6. The possibilities
7. Old thinking and how to stop it
8. Uncovering your fears and replacing them
9. What's wrong in your life & fixing it
10. Direction from the counselor

Coaching is about...

1. The client is the expert
2. Your potential and how it can become reality
3. Your future
4. Doing things intentionally
5. Opportunities you have to move forward
6. The possibilities
7. New thinking and how to implement it
8. Uncovering your passions and pursuing them
9. What's right in your life
10. Direction you have inside yourself

With a Decide Your Legacy coach, you'll...

1. Reach your goals faster.
2. Become a more effective leader.
3. Identify what you REALLY want and move towards it.
4. Create a motivating vision for your future.
5. Engage a whole new level of accountability.

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