Decide Your Legacy, LLC

A lot of content out there barely scratches the surface. It’s overcomplicated, hard to apply, and doesn’t address what’s really keeping you stuck. Shatterproof cuts through the noise and gets straight to the core issues. I’ve distilled the most effective tools and insights—only what actually helps.

Build Unbreakable Confidence

No more hiding. No more playing small. This is your clear, step-by-step path to real confidence—so you can defeat anxiety and finally show up fully in your life.

Learn to Thrive, Not Just Survive

By the end of this course, you will:

Break the cycle of fear & overthinking.
Rewire your inner dialogue to build hope.
Communicate confidently — no over-apologizing.
Take bold action (even when it’s scary).
Strengthen relationships without losing yourself.
Live with clarity, direction, and purpose.

This isn’t just inspiration. It’s a confidence-building system you can start right now.

The 7 Steps

Each module is built to help you take action, not just gain information.

Step 1: Clarify Your Vision
Set bold goals and craft your personal definition of success.

Step 2: Face Your Past
Identify what’s holding you back and rewrite your story.

Step 3: Know Your Value
Break limiting beliefs and discover your true worth.

Step 4: Shift Your Perspective
Master the mental game — turn doubt into drive.

Step 5: Own Your Emotions
Respond with confidence instead of reacting with fear.

Step 6: Live Your Legacy
Rejuvenate so you can be the best version of yourself.

Step 7: Build Real Relationships
Learn how to connect, lead, and speak up authentically.

This Course Is Built for Action-Takers

Shatterproof Yourself is perfect for you if:

You’re done playing small or letting fear make the rules
You want more confidence, not more self-help theories
You’re ready to apply what you learn and see results
You want to build habits that support long-term growth
You’re ready to lead your life, not just survive it

Kelsey Torkelson

"Have you ever been sick of yourself? That was me. I found myself in an incessant cycle of comparison and insecurity. Lacking self-confidence and fighting feelings of inadequacy, I found myself at a breaking point."

"I thought everyone else had their life figured out, and I was the only one struggling. Surely I'm not alone in this, right? I knew I needed something, but I was lost and unable to 'fix' myself. I was tired of feeling numb and living life “going through the motions.”

But then I found Decide Your Legacy. It was not an easy decision because this girl fights stubbornness! Like a lot! I reluctantly decided to surrender my pride, doubt, and insecurities and dig into the resources they offered. Working through my baggage through the Shatterproof Course, I gained clarity and confidence. I found freedom."

Allan Coon

This was an amazing undertaking of self-awareness. So much to process. I have more hope that I can move forward to bigger and better things in my life. I started becoming aware, observing my thinking, and I now have so much more clarity. Everyone hears cliches like “you grow through your pain”, “look at the positives”, yet the process of going through Shatterproof Yourself gets you to write this stuff down for clarity. It puts the truth in your face, so you face it and move beyond. It’s a tool to move past what’s holding you back. Shatterproof provides freedom from your baggage."

Visuals of Key Concepts

I’ve learned that simple visuals make key concepts stick. One strong visual can change everything. Shatterproof includes 22 whiteboards—each explained in depth and designed to make the ideas unforgettable.

Do you focus more on the problems or the opportunities? Here's a visual of the difference between hope and fear. Recognizing where you get stuck in fear enables you to choose hope instead. Start adding hope back into your life through Shatterproof.

Worksheets to Make it Stick

I love a box to fill in, because writing down your thoughts makes you think, gives you insight, and develops clarity. Shatterproof includes 32 worksheets—each explained in depth and designed to help your insights stick.

Here's a tool I use with clients to help them develop more self-confidence. It helps you imagine how you would show up differently if you had more confidence and will inspire you to live differently.