Action Beats Anxiety: 10 Scary Actions to Build Confidence and Overcome Fear emotional health & well-being healthy thinking & mindset life transitions & change Dec 05, 2025

In seventh grade, on the last day of school, a classmate kept shoving me from behind during a school assembly. I asked him to stop—more than once—but he didn’t. Finally, I told myself, If he does it one more time, I’ll take action. When he shoved me again, I followed through.

Walking out of that ...

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5 Books Every Leader Should Read legacy & life coaching life transitions & change teamwork & career development Sep 16, 2025

For the past three years, I’ve met monthly with my business coach, Dan Kries. His company, Circle Consulting, has played a significant role in my growth and success.

Recently, during The Q—a coaching group for business owners that Dan leads—he posed a powerful question for all of us to consider.

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3 Poems That Light a Fire and Clear the Fog emotional health & well-being inspirational & fun life transitions & change Apr 08, 2025

I love great poetry. It has a way of bringing clarity and revealing the next steps I need to take. Like many people, I often place myself in the poem--as if I'm a character in the story--and reflect on how its message aligns with where I'm headed.

The most powerful poems do more than stir emotion--...

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How to Like Yourself (Building Confidence) emotional health & well-being life transitions & change self-care & personal growth Oct 15, 2024

Healthy people are drawn to those who like themselves. Being around people who have confidence in their worth and abilities will build your own self-esteem.

Many believe their value comes from their performance in different areas of life (career, health, finances, marriage, etc.). When they do well...

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25 Books That Have Changed My Life inspirational & fun life transitions & change productivity & habits Jun 25, 2024

I've read a lot of books and special few have inspired me deeply. Some books have changed, and possibly saved, my life. I want to share them with you.

Here's how I decided on my list:

  1. I've read the book multiple times because it's been so helpful.
  2. It's been so inspiring, I've had it in more tha
  3. ...
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Why I Started Decide Your Legacy healthy thinking & mindset legacy & life coaching life transitions & change Apr 30, 2024

Decide Your Legacy was created to help people gain transformational clarity and face the fears that keep them stuck—so they can intentionally live their lives and ultimately leave the legacy they desire.

Along the way, my own insecurities sometimes pulled me off course. I played it safe. I drifte...

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12 Life Balance Tips emotional health & well-being legacy & life coaching life transitions & change Mar 07, 2024

Living with balance lowers stress and anxiety. You’re less reactive, more grounded, and better able to handle pressure without feeling overwhelmed.

Many people struggle with balance because perfectionism gets in the way. They hesitate to make the brave shifts in time and energy required for a well-...

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Eliminate Mental Clutter & Procrastination emotional health & well-being life transitions & change productivity & habits Nov 01, 2023

Most procrastination is driven by fear. You avoid facing things because, subconsciously, you believe it keeps you safe (i.e. "I won't get hurt/rejected/judged, like in the past, if I don't engage").

Do you have tasks at home and work you keep avoiding? Think of these as "loose ends" or "mental clut...

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Why You Must Face Your Past emotional health & well-being legacy & life coaching life transitions & change Aug 14, 2023

The reason to go back and your past is so that you're no longer victimized by it. Denial and its various forms (e.g., minimization, rationalization, avoidance, etc.) allow your past to continue to negatively impact your mindset and emotional health.

Putting it to rest, accepting it, letting it go, ...

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How to Be a Better Friend to Yourself: 4 Practical Tools emotional health & well-being life transitions & change self-care & personal growth May 17, 2023

At times, I can become extremely negative. My mind starts focusing on everything that could go wrong, the opportunities I have missed, the mistakes I have made, and the fear that my life could fall apart.

When I get into that mindset, my perspective is not accurate. I lose sight of what is going we...

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How to Find Clarity in Life emotional health & well-being legacy & life coaching life transitions & change Aug 15, 2022

My purpose in life is to help others find transformational clarity that propels them to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave the legacy they desire. Read more to learn how my team fulfills this purpose.

I had a big problem in 7th grade. I was being bullied. Hair spray was sprayed in my face, I ...

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Overcoming the Fear of Rejection emotional health & well-being life transitions & change relationships & connection Feb 04, 2022

Fear of rejection is one of the biggest fears most people face. When you reach out to someone, you risk not getting the response you hoped for. That fear can feel paralyzing.

Vulnerability means taking action without a guarantee of a positive outcome. But choosing not to play it safe is often the o...

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